How to Close the Gap Between Knowing and Living: A Real Transformation Story
This is a must listen for anyone on a long self development journey. After 10 years of inner work, mentorships, and healing modalities, Sharyn still felt something missing. She had the knowledge and understood the concepts, but there was a persistent gap between what she knew and how she was living. Exhausted from endless seeking yet sensing something deeper needed to shift, Sharon discovered 'The Consciousness Method'. In this raw conversation, she shares her journey from blame and victim consciousness to profound liberation, transforming her relationships with her mother, son, and partner, and finally coming home to herself.
Breakthrough Moments
Pattern Recognition: Realising she was blaming her mother, son, and partners for everything wrong in her life and realising she had been caught in victim mode for 50+ years
The Childhood Wound: Reconnecting with blocked childhood memories and meeting the deeply wounded little girl inside of her so she could begin to heal.
Seeing Mum's Wounding: The shift from labelling and blaming her mother to seeing her as also in a "wounded space" allowed the judgement to drop and the healing to begin.
The Nervous System Release: Understanding her body's vibrating and tingling wasn't a health problem, it was her nervous system saying "I can't hold this anymore".
The Attachment Drop: Moving from perfectionism and control to "things are just as they are" without needing external validation and thus stepping into an amazing flow with life.
Creating Space: Releasing trauma opened up capacity for purpose, opportunities, and divine unfolding she couldn't have imagined.
Key Insights
Sharyn's decade of previous healing work kept her at surface level without touching the deep core wounds that were still running her life. Through 'The Consciousness Method' she went deeper than other modalities and met the really uncomfortable pain rather than processing around it.
Sharyn shares how this isn't work you can do passively; it requires full commitment and going all in, but the support through weekly calls and community helps you stay anchored while you do the deep work on yourself. The transformation happens when your nervous system finally releases what it's been holding and this creates physical and energetic space for your purpose, synchronicities, and opportunities to emerge naturally.
The internal shift ripples out to transform every relationship and circumstance in your life without needing to change anything external.
Powerful Quotes
"I had done a lot of work on myself and a lot of mentorships with other people... but they still hadn't fulfilled that part of me that was deep inside that I knew was there."
"I was in victim mode and I was the reason that I wasn't growing those relationships or nurturing those relationships."
"My relationship now with my mum is amazing. That bond between us is totally different now. It's not from a wounded space, it's just from an understanding, considered space."
"The only way I can describe it is like you're coming home to yourself. It just feels right. It was what I'd been searching for."
"I feel that this work has been quite profound for me in so many ways. And it's what I've been searching for for so long because I could feel inside me there was something really deep that needed to be shifted. And this is the work that does it."
About Allura Halliwell
Allura Halliwell is the creator of The Consciousness Method. Through her own transformation from emotionally draining relationships to devoted partnerships and stable family connections, she's developed a unique approach focusing on internal patterns rather than external relationship dynamics. If you’d like to explore how to shift your relationships connect with Allura here: https://calendly.com/allurahalliwell/invitation-to-connection
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