Parenting and Core Wounds: Transforming Family Relationships Through Consciousness
In this transformative masterclass, Allura explores how core wounds from our own childhood experiences profoundly impact our parenting journey. She reveals how understanding the three fundamental core wounds—feeling unloved, unworthy, and unknown—can revolutionise family dynamics and create deeper connections with our children.
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Key Insights on Parenting and Core Wounds
The Consciousness of Separation in Parenting
Allura identifies that many parenting challenges stem from what she calls the "consciousness of separation"—a state where parents feel disconnected from themselves, their children, and internal safety. This separation manifests through:
- Hyper vigilance or withdrawal in parenting situations
- Feeling overwhelmed by children's needs and emotions
- Constantly trying to control external circumstances to feel safe internally
- Creating expectations that children must meet to validate our own worth
Breaking the Cycle Through Consciousness
The path to healing involves shifting from the consciousness of separation to connection by:
- Recognising separation patterns like judgment, shame, blame, denial, punishment, and conditional praise
- Understanding how these patterns affect both parent and child
- Developing awareness of your own core wound triggers
- Learning to witness pain as a portal to evolution rather than something to avoid
- Creating safety internally rather than trying to control external circumstances
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[FREE DOWNLOAD] Consciousness - Shifting Meditations
Start your journey with three powerful meditations that shift the core wounds of being unloved, unworthy, and unknown.
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