The Myth of Gradual Transition

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Many of us carry an unconscious belief that major life changes should unfold gradually, allowing us time to adjust and learn at a comfortable pace. But what I've observed is that our most significant evolutions rarely happen this way. 

When you commit to a new level of living, whether that's a new business, relationship, or personal endeavour, the universe often responds not by easing you in gently, but by presenting you with exactly what you need to become the person who can successfully inhabit that new reality. 

As one client realised: "Every time you upgrade, life will balance you a challenge. The universe has said, 'Right, you want this huge business? You need to be able to cope with this huge business, so we're going to push you and you're going to learn really, really quickly.'" 

This isn't punishment or bad luck. It's alignment, it’s the necessary intensity required to rapidly evolve you into who you need to become. 

The Secret Freedom of Full Commitment 

What's fascinating about these intense periods of growth is how they can actually free us from certain patterns that have held us back. 

One client who was navigating an overwhelming business transition noticed something unexpected: 

 "It's pulled me away from things I thought I needed to do, and I haven't resisted. I've been demanding help when I'd usually feel bad about that." 

This reveals something powerful: when we're fully engaged in meaningful purpose, we often naturally let go of the people-pleasing, perfectionism, and hyper-vigilance that previously consumed our energy. Our focus shifts from "Am I doing this right?" to "This is what needs to be done now." 

The commitment to something bigger than ourselves can become the pathway to our own liberation. 

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Much love,
Allura